If you’re here, then it’s likely you’re going through a lot right now, and we are so sorry for that. We understand that figuring out what to do with your loved one’s ashes isn’t an easy decision. It’s a personal choice, and one that only you can make. Know that there is no right or wrong way to handle this decision; ultimately, you should do what’s right for you. Let’s walk through some options that might help you find a way to honour their memory in a way that brings you comfort.
Traditional Burial
Just because your loved one chose cremation over a burial doesn’t mean you still can’t bury their ashes in a cemetery or memorial garden. Many cemeteries offer special plots for cremated remains, often surrounded by beautiful nature. This way, you’ll have a dedicated place to visit and talk to your loved one. Plus, it can provide a sense of connection if you’re someone who finds solace visiting a specific place.
Scattering Ashes
A popular way to honour a loved one is to let their remains forever become a part of a place that was special to them or holds meaning to you. Did your loved one have a favourite spot they walked or a favourite beach or park? There are also services that can help with scattering ashes in places like rivers or oceans. Scattering your loved one’s ashes can be a very personal and symbolic gesture, giving a sense of freedom and connection to nature.
Memorial Trees or Plants
If your loved one was passionate about nature or gardening, you might consider using their ashes to help grow a memorial tree or plant. There are special kits available that mix ashes with soil to nurture a tree or plant. It’s a beautiful way to create a living tribute that grows over time and becomes a physical tribute and reminder of their life.
Keepsake Urns
Keepsake urns are a lovely option if you want to keep a small portion of your loved one’s ashes close by. These urns come in various designs and sizes and can be a comforting way to hold onto a piece of your loved one. You might choose a small, decorative urn that fits easily on a mantel or shelf, providing a beautiful way to honour their memory in your home.
Turn Your Loved One’s Ashes into Jewellery
Turning your loved one’s ashes into jewellery is a beautiful way to remember your loved one, allowing you to carry them with you wherever life takes you. There are two types of ashes jewellery: urn jewellery and ashes into jewellery.
Urn jewellery is exactly that, a tiny wearable urn that lets you hold a small amount of ashes in a pendant, ring, or bracelet. Each design features a discreet compartment where the ashes can be stored. Here at Inscripture, we’ll provide you with a special funnel kit so filling the design with you loved one’s ashes can be done carefully and respectfully in your own space and time.
Ashes into Jewellery is similar, but instead permanently encapsulates your loved one’s ashes into colourful resin to create a custom piece. Again, choose from ashes necklaces, rings and bracelets which hold the ashes proudly at the centre, so you always have them with you.
Choosing what to do with your loved one’s ashes is a personal decision. There’s no rush to decide what to do, just remember that whatever you choose, it should be a way that brings you comfort. If you need more guidance or support, don’t hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or professional services that can help you through this process. The team here at Inscripture are also always on hand to offer advice, especially in regard to creating personalised ashes jewellery.
